It has been nearly thirty-six(36) months to the date since I last posted anything on this blog. It is currently 2:45am (yes…2:45 in the morning…in the middle of the night!) and I woke up from a dream and then my mind drifted to a conversation my wife was having with a new friend earlier the previous day.
My wife was explaining that a few years ago she and I were doing an exercise through our church to discover our spiritual gifts, pinpoint our talents, and uncover our passions and how all three can be applied to help others. This exercise also had a section regarding task-oriented personalities versus people-oriented personalities.
Here is one short, but to the point article from The Success Factory Co. on the differences between task-oriented vs. people-oriented leadership styles. Another similar article from eSkill on the pros and cons of each style and how to leverage each.
As I’m starting to put two-n-two together to equal (*Tada!*)…a middle of the night epiphany; I can look back at the times I personally (as a people-oriented personality) thrived as a writer:
- Hosting or participating in a writer’s group where I interacted with other writers through encouragement and semi-competitive writing challenges.
- When I met daily with co-workers — onsite, in the break-room during our lunch — to sit and work on our individual National Novel Writing Month word count goals for the November event.
- When I led my own homeschooled teenagers through a creative writing course as part of their homeschool curriculum.
- Back in the day — before it was cancelled and the site closed down — a co-worker challenged me to write a screenplay (which I had never done before that) during the month of April for the script writing event known as, Script Frenzy.
In each case, I found myself more productive as a writer and actually accomplishing writing tasks when I was connected into other writers. Hold on a sec! Writing is a lone wolf activity. How could a people-oriented personality ever become a productive, meeting deadlines, finally finishing a project writer?
Here are a few very quick (semi-validated) suggestions:
- Join an online, social writer’s site such as Wattpad or any of the alternative sites and start socializing with other writers.
- Use Meetup to find a local writing group or start a local Meetup writing group (I found it to cost less than $20/mo).
- Attend the NaNoWriMo (November) and/or Camp NaNoWriMo (April & July) events in your area, which can be found on the forums/message boards for those events.
- Join an online writing group through Facebook.
Even with COVID-19, social-distancing, and cancelled in-person events there are options out there to connect remotely, in order to:
- Gain encouragement and motivation to write.
- Learn about the craft of Writing.
- Comment on articles and have online discussions.
- Attend virtual events or virtual writing conventions/conference, as called out here by SoYouWantToWrite.org.
- …and more.
If you too are a people-oriented style, don’t do what I did and find yourself isolated from others and wondering why you aren’t energized to write.
Connect with others and keep on writing!